{"id":158,"date":"2010-01-19T23:00:16","date_gmt":"2010-01-20T04:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hasoferet.com\/blog\/?p=158"},"modified":"2010-01-17T02:06:27","modified_gmt":"2010-01-17T07:06:27","slug":"a-bit-of-boundary-setting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hasoferet.com\/blog\/2010\/01\/a-bit-of-boundary-setting\/","title":{"rendered":"A bit of boundary-setting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Generally I like when people share stuff with me. &#8220;Have you seen this?&#8221; they say, and usually I haven&#8217;t and it&#8217;s interesting. Thanks, sharers &#8211; keep it coming, I much appreciate your thoughtfulness.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, though, people share jokes, and I&#8217;m observing a trend &#8211; when total strangers share jokes (sometimes by internet, sometimes by phone), it&#8217;s always men, and the jokes are always about sex.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not that I mind rude jokes per se, but this is getting a bit creepy. I&#8217;m famous for having a vagina; that doesn&#8217;t mean I want to share it.<\/p>\n<p>So, if you&#8217;re a man and you&#8217;re thinking about sharing a rude joke with me, please remember that so doing will make you look like a creep, and think again. If you absolutely must share your rude joke with me, get your mom to send it. Thanks.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Generally I like when people share stuff with me. &#8220;Have you seen this?&#8221; they say, and usually I haven&#8217;t and it&#8217;s interesting. Thanks, sharers &#8211; keep it coming, I much appreciate your thoughtfulness. Sometimes, though, people share jokes, and I&#8217;m observing a trend &#8211; when total strangers share jokes (sometimes by internet, sometimes by phone), [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-158","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hasoferet.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/158","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hasoferet.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hasoferet.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hasoferet.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hasoferet.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=158"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/hasoferet.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/158\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":176,"href":"https:\/\/hasoferet.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/158\/revisions\/176"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hasoferet.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=158"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hasoferet.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=158"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hasoferet.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=158"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}